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*heerwhore23
writes:So since the beginning of the summer I've been a little down..I didn't hang out with Friends as much and I just felt like something was missing..it got worse when school started but no one could tell because I'm a really happy person and I cover it up well..anyways I thought I finally made a breakthrough by liking this guy that was said to like me back..but my friend told me he didn't..he was being kind of rude to me which is hurtful because we were such great friends and I felt like I could trust him with anything..and he would be the last person to act the way he did...now I'm more upset than ever and just really embarrassed..I just don't know how to get out of this.. Can someone help me or give me advice on how to get out of this "slump"?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (13 September 2011):
 Unfortunately, we're all human and there is no guarantee that someone we relied on won't let us down at some point.
A bitter pill for you to swallow, I know. Look at it this way: it's no reflection on YOU that he doesn't want to be friends. I'm sure you didn't do or say anything to cause this. (And even if you DID, he should have brought it to your attention and tried to work it out).
It's his loss. Try to let it go and see if you can't turn your attention to your other friends, and to doing the things you enjoy and find meaningful. Eventually, the hurt will fade.
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