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writes: I wish i had carried on with the affair.Last year i had a affair which lasted 3 months because i ended it.i was living with my partner and the man was married.He just swept me off my feet,and i think one of the reasons why i started it was my partner doesn't show me any attention and i'm just his unpaid skivvy.This man showed me love and would phone and txt me everyday and we would meet up once a week.Anyway i confessed to my partner and he forgave me straight away.We talked and have been for the last six months,he was different for a couple of weeks but now its back to the way it was,and i know it will always be the same.I want to leave but have a son and i am only staying for him.So i wish i had carried on with the affair at least i was happy then,there will be no going back now as i told the mans wife that he had been having a affair with me.I'm so unhappy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006): Sounds to me like you have gotten yourself into an emotional pickle!
Reading your post sounds like you are never going to be happy with this guy. Don't stay because of your son. I'm not sure as to his age but you would be suprised at how children adjust to new situations quite rapidly. You should get out of the relationship before you waste anymore of each others time.
As far as the "other man" is concerned think of it as a lesson learned and for you to grow from. Unfortunately there are always consequenses to suffer from, due to infidelity.
Best of Luck!
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