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writes: Been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now. both been in previous marriages with kids( 1 hers 2 mine). had few issues recently about future etc. at weekend a relative of hers died. i had all kids so she could be there with family, the 1st time i saw her after i was hurled abuse at told to leave. we live seperatley. i've tried to see her, but every time i just get abuse and my kids and family run down. she says i'm not there for her, how can i be if all i get is abuse and told to leave. now she wants to end it, she says i have not been there for her and feels very lonely. not sure of best action to take if any... Reply to this Question
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (11 January 2006):
 The way I am understanding is that she started acting this after her relative died. If she was acting normal before the death, I would say she may be experiencing depression and she would benefit from seeking counseling. There is probably not much you can do but tell her that you will leae her alone if that is what she wants but if she needs you for anything she can contact you at any time. That way she knows you are trying to be there for her but also respecting her wish that you stay away. I do not think I would continue to expose my children to her if she is acting this way in front of them, it could cause them emotional trauma. Good luck, I really hope this all works out for you.
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