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writes:There is a guy i know and we really like each other but he has a girlfriend and I dont want to break them up as she hasnt done anything wrong to me so I can't steal her boyfriend as revenge. I know the guy thinks about me alot as he has told me. her girlfriend has found out that we have been meeting but we haven't kissed or anything. And one more thing, he is 19 and I am 14 so he might want to have sex with me but i am under age. HELP!!
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reader, stawberry01 +, writes (6 January 2008):
 He is a man so yes he it going to want to have sex if he like you as much as you think he does the he can wait for sex thats not as what relationships are about. If he is having all the feeling for you then why is he still with his girlfriend? If he likes you that much he wouldn't be with her he would be with you. Think about that.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 It is only your perceptions of him wanting sex. You could be wrong in your perceptions.
If he really wants sex, you can gently tell him a big "NO!". If he leave you , then he is not worth having. He only wants sex and not you as a person.
It is against the law to have sex with a minor. There are many who do have sex with minors and they are not caught.
If you know what is love and sex all about and know what you are getting into then make sure you practice safe sex. An unwanted pregnancy will change your life and will land him into trouble with the law.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (5 January 2008):
 you need to put him out of your life. for good.
i know its hard but you have to. simply because, its illegal. and he will go to jail if he does.
he is whats knowen as a Pedophile. ( assuming he has sex with you)
you need to block him. and put him out of yourlife for your own safty.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 He doesn't sound like much of a prize if he is doing this behind his girlfriends back, he's old enough to know better and he's also old enough to realize that you are underage. Doesn't sound like a winning combination to me! Why do you like him, because he's such a great guy? I'll bet his girlfriend and your parents won't like him either if they find out what his intentions are with you. Maybe you should try looking for someone who is closer to your own age who is a one-woman-type of guy, then you won't be writing us worried that someone older is pressuring you for sex. He sounds like a lousy bet for a good boyfriend, and you already know it or you wouldn't have written to ask us for HELP!
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