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writes:dear cupidim in love with two guys and need your helpi've been dating this guy for a year, and our relationship is great, i am so in love with this guy and i can see it in his eyes that he feels the same about me, he so loving, carring, and very passionate when it comes to me. we are so much alike itz funny but he has his flawsthen there's another guy i've known for about 5 years. we never dated but we are so damn close, ad i love him sooo much he doent tell me how he feels cuz i have a boyfriend but i know he loves me, i can see the passion in his eyes when ever im around him and we have so much in common, this boy knows me like the back of his hand and when im with him he treats me like a queen, he tells ppl he wants to be with me but i have a boy friendwhat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): which guy do you know better and has given you the most respect?this is the one you should go with i am in the same situation that you r in right know but not with the boyfriend everything happens for a reason and go with your gut maybe the same thing is going on with your bf talk about it then tell him your choice if you make up your mind hope this helps!!
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reader, rockelle +, writes (14 December 2007):
 It seems like you have a hard decision to make, two men that adore you and you do not know which to choose. Well, I think you should analyze this carefully before doing anything drastic if you are happy in your relationship why would you consider leaving it? If you have good reason maybe it is time. But be very careful the wrong decision could blow up in your face and you will regret it.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (14 December 2007):
 Who would dare to venture into your mind and heart to try to answer that question?
This can be a very distressing situation, one that could cause you pain for many years to come should you decide later that you made the wrong decision.
I know of at least one person who nearly committed suicide just because of a situation just like this, only he made a wrong decision and didn't realize it until he had lost both girls he loved dearly.
However, that was many years ago and he has been happily married since some time after that.
The only thing you can do is do a close examination of your compatibilities with the both of them and probably ultimately make a best guess decision.
I am sorry to say that you are only going to get opinions from others but you can get the answer only from yourself.
I sincerly hope things work out well for you. Doc
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