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female
age
36-40,
*issylu
writes:Ok so here is my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we already live together (mistake #1) I have grown to be so unhappy but feel stuck in the relationship because not only do we live together but we also work together. I am 21 years old and I go to school and work to support myself completely. He is 26 and I can barely depend on him to pay his share of the rent/utilies. I feel bad because he has two kids (3yrs and 20 months...one that he doesnt claim) that he has to pay child support for but it just doesnt seem fair that I should have to pay his bills for him. I take care of his daughter, buy her diapers, juice, clothes, food, toys etc. One time I told him that I didnt feel appreciated because he never says thank you and he said "well i dont ask you to do those things". Like what the hell, really?!He doesnt even have his GED and cant get a half decent job because of his record (assault on a female, drug charges, etc.) He is a much better person now than his past reflects but I constantly feel like I am being used. I am young and my life is going somewhere and I feel like his is going no where. Anytime I try to talk to him about the things that bothers me he throws himself a pity party saying that he knows he's a piece of shit blah blah blah. I feel bad for him but i feel like a deserve better! I love him and his daughter to death...but i just feel STUCK. I'm too young to be in such a mess...what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Delia +, writes (18 September 2009):
He is using you. Tell him not to let the door hit his ass on the way out. Not good enough for you!
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