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writes:help, well i shy when it comes to admitting my feelings, i dont no why, but i think to myself i will tell him how i really feel, then when it comes to it i clam up and just say i dont feel anything, but if i do tht much longer im going to lose him, and i dont want tht, he loves me and i love him were not together becos i dont have the nerves to admit my feelings he asked me how i feel but i said dno, to hide what i really want to tell him. i do love him,!! i want to be with him,!! its just wen we have to talk about stuff like 'tht' i go so shy the conversation gets no were, and im afraid im going to lose the one thing i need to make my life better but i just dont have confidence in myself.have any idea why im like this?what shud i do?is this normal tht i get to shy to admit my true feelings.?what do i do,?do i tell him ? how do i tell him becos i cant seem to bring my self to do it ? got any ideas to bring up my confidence? im not sure wot to do
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reader, fabian_rap_more  +, writes (11 October 2008):
Atleast you are with him. Ppl like me cant even muster the guts to ask a girl out and I dont know why. I huess it comes as you mature.
ANyway on to your problem. You need some confidence. How about meeting him after you won some game or something? Make sure you win (play with a person who sucks or something) so that you will be happy and a bit more confident. Then run up to him and tell him - "Hey *his name* i really like you and i dont know why io didnt tell you........" and go on from there
That should get tjose first few words out. After that your heart will be in your throat waiting for his reply.
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reader, fishnchips +, writes (11 October 2008):
i know how you feel, theres a girl i really like and want to ask out but just havent got the courage to do it, but i think you should just tell him, if you do clam up then just think of what you could miss out on if you dont tell him, it may put more pressure on you but it gives you more motivation to do it.
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