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writes:heLLoo im 14 i really wanna have sex i have these funny feelings in my body when i think about it and i wanna have it but im so scared to get pregnant so can someone please tell me a way that i can guarte not to get pregnant please thank you who evr replies xoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, Katie105  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 The legal age of consent is 16, therefore, if you were to have sex it would be breaking the law.
I know how difficult it is to control certain urges that you're not used to, this is all a part of puberty - your body is adapting into adulthood. But believe me, you will feel much better for waiting to find the right person to lose your virginity to.
If you DO decide to go ahead with it, then please make sure you've though about it properly. Sex is not only a physical thing but also very emotional. Your body is making an unbreakable bind with someone elses' and if you're not ready for that it could have terrible consequences.
And remember, be safe xx
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reader, nevets122 +, writes (31 July 2007):
hi i was 14 when i lost my virginity too i was in a 3 week relationship when i started to and i was with him for 2 and half years after that.
anywayz....if you really want to nobody is gonna stop you, just be careful, consider using a least 1 of these forms of contreception please.....
1.condoms- these will stop you getting pregnant and stop you from catching and sexualy transmitted diseases. ALWAYS USE ONE OF THESE NO MATTER WHAT!!!! even if they say they dont have a diseases, always be on the safe side.
2. the pill- go to your doctor to discuss this and he will prescribe you some tablets to stop you getting pregnant, with the pill you have to take one tablet a day for four weeks then you stop for a week then youll have a period. you have to take the pill each day around a similar time, you cannot forget to take them else youll increase your chance of getting pregnant. however these's pills do not stop you from catching a transmitted disease.
i talked to my mum about it and she was understanding and took me to the doctors and she helped me to understand the dangers of sex, aswell as the plus points. if you can talk to your mum do so but if not please go to see the doctor.
Please consider using both contreceptions and then there is under a 1% chance youll get pregnant.
i hope i was a help
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (30 July 2007):
 hey their sweety everyone wants to have sex when their younger but youre only 14 and sex should be something shared with the right person after the age of 16 dont waste youre virginty, if you have urges then masturbate till youre ready when youre older to give it to someone who is the perfect man for you..i had sex at 16 and i regret it i wish i had saved it for the right man i just wish i believed others when they say dont waste it xxx hope this helps
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Hi babes,
Your so young 14 years old, how old is your boyfriend???/
Please darling think about this really hard before its too late this is your gift to give to the right person its your body........Everyone has this erge but you really ahve to be sure before you regret it so please please think about it hun.......
If your still going to do it then at least your thinking about it sensibly go to your family palnning clinic or your own GP who will advise you on the correct contraception for you, there are so many differnet ones on the market today from the pill, to injection etc...but you do have to see a GP first to check your family medical back ground.....
You take care babes and remember think about it long and hard this is your body
Good luck
Love Donna xx
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