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female
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30-35,
*lueydblond
writes:well so here is my dilemma. i am in love. more than i have ever been. the majority of the time i feel so happy and complete that life feels more than satisfying. other times, things get so rough. when we argue or fight things feel wrong and they feel out of place. i have been in this relationship for eight months now and i want so bad to see where our future together will lead. he is a great guy and he loves me, i know that. but he hurts me all the time. like not really knowing it, but he does it repeatedly. i am tired of sugar coating our happiness and making others envy us when they don't even know the half of it. i am tired of worrying about what others will think when it comes to my boyfriend and i. it really is none of their business. but this isn't fair.when he and i are together, it's like nothing else in the world matters. but when we aren't together, we can't seem to stay on the same page, which causes us to fight.i think that in reality he tries so hard to make me happy that he screws up even more because he is always so stressed. i am not a hard girl to please though. i am very understanding with him, and i like to compromise. if he likes one thing and i like another, i somehow always manage to find a way to make it work for the both of us. i never expect anything from him, and i would rather have his love and time than his money and gifts. he knows all of this too!my question is...what seems to be the problem here, and what can i do to fix it? i really care about making it work between us and i know for a fact that he is the man i want to marry. and he talks about our "getting married" all the time. i am the one who rethinks it though. i just need to know if there is anything worth savoring here.i am at my wits' end. i need advice and i never thought i'd say it haha. but this is getting so frustrating. not just for me, but i can tell for him also!--BluEydBlonde
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