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I'm tired of choosing the wrong men!

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Question - (29 May 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2012)
A female United States age , *orever58 writes:

meet this man on a dateing site we hit it off good had 3 date ,then he im me to say his sons did not want him to date an so he ended it . but i ask him at first was he ready to moved on an he said yes an also said his sons wanted him to find someone . but there was several times he told me that he would talk to me later that day an i would never hear from him . his wife has been dead a year an a half now . then he said he still wanted to see me we had made plan for wednesday an he still wanted to keep the date cause he still wanted to see me . then he said he didn't know if he could keep up with me an an pay what he had to pay . but he also told me everything was paid for an he didn't owe nothing on anything .everything was goig good i thought until he went over to his sons , his son are grown an have a family of there own do you think all those time i didn't hear from him he was seeing someone else cause he did say he had been talking to a lady that live in another town but it was to far away for him to go . i know i have no choice but to accept this and moved on .but i am tired of chooseing the wrong men they have got to be a way to tell if this is who you want to be with before you get to involved with them .? this is getting old an i am tired of being rejected by them .

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A female reader, forever58 United States +, writes (30 May 2012):

forever58 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok got you now ! thanks so much an i thought i had done that . but i guess not he moved on thanks so very much

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (30 May 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI'm "saying"... make and be FRIENDS with the men you get to date.... and let "romance" and "involvement" come later.....

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A female reader, forever58 United States +, writes (30 May 2012):

forever58 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sageoldguy , not sure i am understand what your say . are you say if i am trying to own him .please explain this !

thanks for the help i need all i can get !

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (30 May 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIF you are focused on "being involved" then your whole demeanor is compromised in a way that is off-putting to guys. IF/when we detect that, we say to ourselves, "Cripes, this one is looking to own a guy, and I'm HIM!!!".... and our reaction is to dis-engage (from you).

I suggest that you keep your eyes tuned more on "enjoying some (any) man's friendship"... and 'way less upon determining if you "are becoming involved."

Try it.... You (and some lucky guy) will like it....

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