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I'm the one for him..not her!

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Question - (16 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How can i tell my ex bf that im the one for him, we split nearly 7 months ago, and hes just started meeting people on line to meet including this girl hes meet from our home town, hes meet her 4 times and sleept with her already,

Anyway all his family still like me and i see or talk to him on the phone everyday, its sometimes like where still together,

somebody said they dont no why were not together yet,

when he sees me he flirts with me and the other day hes done this before as well cot hold of my face and kissed my lips my mates say there is still something there, but why doesnt he that, he dumped me but i still like him a little, he told me to meet someone else but i can only see myself with him, he also said he thinks the world of me, but wont go bk out with me, but it confuses me because he flirt with me and jabs me in the ribs like he used to when we where together

plz help me guys vry apreceated on there points of view as well

many thanks xxxxxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

you have to drop him, move on. yes he flirts with you, but he is comfortable with that, and frankly it is an ego boost for him. He has moved on, dating and sleeping with others and telling you to do the same. take the hint.

once you do he might actually start wanting you again because you are moving on and not wanting him or needing him. if he comes around and wants to get back together do not do it, because once he has you he will go back to this pattern. just move on.

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