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writes: Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago and were then sex buddies for another month. Then he got a gf and so we pretty much dropped contact. This sounds wierd, but I kind of forgot all the wonderful times we had in our relationship, so I could get over him ok(ish) because I didn't remember what I was missing. But he's been single again for a couple of days and we've been flirting online and suddenly all the wonderful times we had together are flooding back to me as we're feeling the spark between us now he's single. I want to be with him again, but I'm scared of being rejected. Now I'm remembering being happy with him i've realised how miserable I've been since we broke up, and I've been really horrible to my friends without realising because I was so unhappy. I want to be that happy again, but I know that if I'm rejected I'll be so hurt I don't think I could deal with it. I don't know what to do.
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reader, Adelaide +, writes (16 November 2006):
Don't rush this, he is only just single 2 days you say.....
I feel if you rush in he may initially want you but what happens if his ex comes back on the scene and wants him back and they reconcile thier differences! where will that leave you???? rejected!!! and we don't want that do we...
My advise would be to play it cool for a few weeks and if nothing further transpires with his ex then yes by all means start dating him again, at least this way you will have every confidence that his ex has gone for good.
I know you are desperate to be back with him, but patience is a virtue and if you are meant to be together you will be, even if it's not this week or next.
Good Luck and Best Wishes
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