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writes:Three years ago, I moved to a new city for work. I have met a lot of people my age at work and we get along well, and that's where I met my ex. We dated for one year, and I chose to go to grad school at a nearby town. We continued seeing each other for another year. Just as I am about to graduate and move back to the same city, he breaks up with me. Later I found out that he has been with another girl from work. Now I am back to the city. We share the same social circle, as a matter of fact he is the centre of the circle. I found myself without friends and boyfriend, he left me so abruptly that I wasn't prepared at all. All the people i know are from my old job where my ex and his current girl work at, so they have completely cut me off. I am very depressed and lonely as i still love him very much, I don't know how someone can turn so cold overnight. I have no one to talk to , except phoning my old friends back home who have their own lives. I don't know what to do anymore, i cry everyday. Will I ever get out of this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2014): Hi there, first and most of all I am so sorry you are hurting. I know how you feel and I wish you well. Only time will help you heal and God will see you through this awful and painful breakup. Go out and try to make new friends. Sign up for yoga or take a dancing class. You can go out, keep your mind busy and hopefully you can make new friends. I know it's easier said than done. I've been there myself but it's doable. All the best wishes. You are a wonderful person, you deserve better, you will be fine.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 July 2014):
The answer is yes but it will take time to heal.I can understand how hurt and lonely you are feeling right now.But this will pass and then you will move on.Would you consider joining clubs and groups that does not have in connection to your ex or his friends. Give it a thought .Yes yes this will pass Time is A GREAT HEALER.Kind Wishes NORA B.
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