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I'm suffering from analysis paralysis... have so many thoughts I have no idea how I feel.. !

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Question - (11 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *inger2427 writes:

I've been dating a co-worker for 9 months and he's great! But lately, for some odd reason, I've been over analyzing everything! Now I have so many thoughts I have no idea how I feel. The thought of not being with him makes me so sad. I used to know he was the one. I want him to be the one but I don't know how I feel. And since we work together there is not much "me time" to think about everything. I just want to go back to the way things used to be. Is our relationship over? Has its run its course?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007):

yeh, my gf has been saying exactly that. it worries me to bits. i dont want to lose her but its out of my hands. i love her to bits. please help. any suggestions welcome.

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A male reader, Jubbaloo United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2007):

Jubbaloo agony auntBook yourself on one of those spa days, have a massage and a jacuzzi and think. Then TALK to him, its the most important thing in a relationship.

Hope this helps

try last minute.com

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 June 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhoa slow down there Ginger. Take a couple deep breaths. I think if you just ease up on the analysing you will be able to think more clearly. Sometimes people just need to slow down and smell the roses for awhile. Just have fun with your boyfriend. But if you can't really say that you enjoy being with him then you'll know what to do. Good luck Ginger.

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