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writes:my bf and i been dating fo six months now...we have known each other since last year feb but never dated...so when i finaly gave him a chance,we were like the it couple,i fell totaly inlove with him and didnt take me long to stop seeing or flirting with other guys...we practically spent a lot of times together,always together whenever...introduced me to his mom and told her im the one...then we decided to have a baby...well he the one who suggested it...i thought about it and i thought why not??!so we did...things started changing on mid of my 2nd trimester.he been acting all weird and distant i have never been so lonely...when i spoke to him about it he told me that he too had noticed a change in him and doesnt know whats going on with him...i spoke to his mom and his mom said im prolly expecting a boy thats why he has changed...and when i went fo a scan its indeed a boy...i dunno what took over my man but i know he isnt like this...he recently asked fo a break and said its not a break up as he loves me with all his heart but lately we dont even talk no more unless i ask him fo data or airtime...i feel so lonely and try not to cry as i keep thinking its hormones making him like this and this baby boy im carrying...i been told he will come back to being himself after the baby is born...what should i do??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2015):
 You have both moved very quick in this relationship, seeing each other for six months is not very long and things have moved very quickly. Sounds to me like he has gotten cold feet, he is probably scared about being a father and doesn't know what to do. Distance between you is not fair for you as you need support through your pregnancy. He needs to man up. Talk to him and tell him how this is making you feel. I hope things work out for you.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (8 December 2015):
 You need to keep in close contact with his parents - after all they are going to be grandparents - and they are the ones who are going to help you through this, hopefully.
He is acting like a complete 'tossr'. I hope his parents can bring him round to the fact that, he is going to be a dad. What a privilege.
Finally, in respect to the people reading this, some punctuation would be helpful, capital letters, stuff like that. It would be most appreciated because it makes your words easier to read.
I hope things go well for you.
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