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writes:i was with this guy for about 3 to 4 months and i felt really close to him and i was sure i was in love with him all my friends and family said i had to leave him cause they thought he was gonna just mess me around but i ignorned them and went for it with him its been 5 months now and i still cant sop thinking about him i guess he did mess me about in some ways but im sure i love him is this a good thing to still be in love with him ? he was my first love he still calls me just about everynight and i love it but they never usually last long the calls but the other night we were on the phone for 2o mins been so flirty i loved it but im going on holiday soon and when i get back i said id meet up with him help me i dont no what to do should i meet him? if not how can i get over this guy ?? cause i really think i need to plaese helpconfused x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Meet up with him before you go on holiday.
Then thinking about him won't ruin your holiday.
Good luck babe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Nothing should stand in the way of love, i no many adults think that people as young as you can experience love but you can. I had a similar problem when i was your age, and your problems sound all to familiar. I noo how you feel, i waited to long to meet up with him and he got a girlfriend, and i was slowly cast aside.
Don't make that mistake meet up with him and see how is with you. If there's no chemistry then the best thing to do is consider him as a close friend.
But if there is chemistry then go for it.
You'll only regret it as much as i do.
And good look.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): I think you should go for it. If you love him then it's got to mean something, meet up with him and see what happens. Then take it from there. If you want to get over him then you gotta stop talking to him completely. Ask him why he messed you about, and then see hwow it goes.
Good luck.
x
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reader, minniemoose +, writes (9 July 2008):
 hi confused,
i was reading what you said and you fell in love fast! but its not good that you're family an friends are telling you what to do in your own relationship, its your choice and if he did mess you about then whats stopping him from doing it again? if u still have strong feelings for him and he has been calling you almost every night then maybe he still likes you. it's worth meeting him and telling him how you feel and ask him how he feels too. because you know that if you didn't go you would only regret it in the fututre knowing that something could have happened. but if he tells you that he doesn't have feelings for you but stil calls you, be careful he doesn't lead you on because that would hurt even more. and getting over someone is very hard, and if he is your first love then there will always be something there because he is your first,(i still do) but there will be others, as they say there is plenty more fish in the sea and just keep busy keep other things on your mind. . .if not then your just gonna think of him.
good luck with everything
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