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writes: I everyone,I am 30 years old and I am with the same girl, not married, since 7 years. The problem now is I m having a crush on a girl at work who is with her boyfriend for 15 years. A little voice tell me not to act on it but I can't stop picturing myself kissing this girl. I have no idea if she likes me or not but we send email a lot at work and some of them are a little flirtiness. What should I do, tell her or what?
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reader, shady2012 +, writes (19 September 2008):
its all fun and games, until you get caught!
if your happy with your girl, stay with her and dont cheat.
you already know that its a problem but its normal!
people get attracted to each other, but it will happen again in your life.
so you can either risk this and have a fling and possibly get caught.
you dont have to stop talkin to her but if you do talk to her,
tell yourself and know! that you CANT DO ANYTHING WITH HER!
being friends with her could be good. as long as you tell her.
shell probably want u more. but as long as you stay strong and be her friend.
everythings good dude.
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