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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I have been hanging out a lot with a girl from work lately. We get on great and are always together at work and calling/ messaging each other evryday too. I'm not sure whats going on with her now though. She always calls me baby, love, darling etc and since she found out that I have been with other women it seems like every second comment is about lesbians. Now she purposely avoids me/ hangs out with other friends and makes silly jokes about me infront of others.I thought it might be because of the lesbain thing but she told me how much she wants to try it.... then she told me she was broke up with her boyfriend but noone else can know. She also tried to get me alone when we were drinking... but for no real reason apart from to go to the bathroom with her. I'm confused and don't want to lose her as a friend but don't know whether she is freaking out that I might hit or if she is curious. I would ask her but I don't want to embarrass her or blow it out of proportion. Whats going on with her? Any ideas?
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reader, Dom123 +, writes (17 July 2009):
Hello?! She's obviously attracted to you! Now she's being so nasty because you wouldn't take your friendship to a relationship. \Here's what you should do, go up to her and invite her round to yours, then wink at her seductively. If she agrees then great, but if she declines then say something like, why, not long ago you wanted us to be together. If she finally accepts then crack open a bottle of red wine. Keep throwing her a seductive smile and make a nice meal. Then sit on the sofa and say, I have an idea, why don't we leave the food to heat and we just talk for a while. Whatever she then says, put yours and her wineglass down and go in for a kiss. Then just lurch at her get on top of her and kiss her. She will love it.
Once in the bedroom, get in some positions, like, position 69. In this position, she is laid down on the sofa, bed etc. and your head is near her vagina. You lick her vagina. Now, your vagina is in front of her head. She should then lick yours. Just thinking of this makes you tingle, huh? If you would rather not do that, huddle up tightly together and watch porn. Lightly bounce up and down and groan a lot saying things like, ooooh and ssssst. Then do what the people on the screen are doing to each other to her. Keep saying her name. Well, groaning it
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): It sounds to me that she's either in love with you are extremely infatuated.
If you like someone but feel you can't be with them one usually tries to avoid contact with said person. On the other hand however, her talking to you about being with girls et cetera likely means that she was probing you, hoping you would tell her that you have a crush on a girl (maybe her?) et cetera.
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