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writes:i am stii in love with my ex boyfriend but i know he only thinks of me as a friend should i tell him or just remain mates
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): I know exactly how you feel! I had an amazing relationship where my boyfriend and i both loved eachother very much...but we went through a rough patch and broke up twice. Now he acts like wouldnt care if i died...but enough of that. I would say to stay friends because if you tell him, then you might go through ANOTHER hard time where you guys arent even friends! If he was in love with you before, theres a big chance he could like you again. So just stay friends and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): you shoud not tell him im still in love with my ex but im not gonna tell him
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (10 February 2007):
just stay m8s dont wreck what youve got its not worth it sayin that it could go both ways but ask ureself why you spilt in the first place is the guy the one!!?? i doubt it move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): Just stay friends with him, after all you've already tried a relationship with him but it failed. Also he doesn't want a relationship with you. Move on to a bloke who wants a relationship with you.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (10 February 2007):
 The thing here is, how much do you value his friendship? If you asked him if he had any feeling for you and he said 'No, not in that way, only as a friend', how would you feel? Because the chances are this would destroy your friendship afterwards cos you would both feel uncomfortable!
BUT (may I add) I also believe in 'nothing ventured, nothing gained' SO...he may feel the same way about you and how will you ever know if you don't ask??
You ahve a bit of a dilemma here I am afaid. But in you situation I would tell him. But I would be prepared beforehand to lose his friendship if it all went wrong.
I wish you BIG LUCK honey!!
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): WOW not many people can maintain a friendship with their exes! That's good! But at the same time, it's torture, because you'd like to think that situations can improve and you guys can get back together again.
Since you know that he only thinks of you as his friend, I think the best move for you right now is to keep it a secret and move on.
http://dating.about.com/od/recoverymovingon/ht/MoveOnSecrets.htm
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