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writes:ive been married now for just over a year and i want to have more sex and more adventure. when my wife and i were dating we would fool around everywhere but now she insists on only having sex in bed...what can i do or why is she being like this. am i not good enough for her or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (10 February 2007):
 TALK! Go to bed early with her, even bring a coffee upstairs with you and sit and talk about it. Ask her what she likes best about making love to you. Is there anything she'd like you to do that you haven't tried yet? Is there any fantasies that really turns her on? Asking her questions will draw her out and she of course will ask you in return. Sitting together doing this will bring you much closer together and help you bond closer.
A lot of times women feel they want to talk and not just DO the act. Listen to her when she speaks, ask her questions and draw her out. Talking about what you both like in bed can be very erotic and arousing. Try it and see how it goes! ;o)
Eve
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