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I'm starting to think of him a lot - where do I go from here?

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Question - (5 October 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Haiti age 30-35, *wannaloveme writes:

hi, two years ago i dated this guy that i deeply fell in love with. we dated for two weeks then broke up. nine months later, we dated again for four months and it didnt work out again. we were just high school kids, so we made a lot of mistakes, we still had a lot to learn. like i said, this is a guy that i was so crazy about.

few months later, i found my self leaning on the shoulder of one of his friends. i started liking his friend because he always was there when i was depressed over my ex, after a few months, we started dating. so to make it clear, i dated good friends, one after the other.

after being with his friend for over a year, i realized that the relationship wasn't going anywhere. so i started to give him space until we broke up just recently.

my issue is that while i was with my ex, from time to time, i would catch feelings for my other ex, which was his friend and was hanging out with him almost everyday. i spoke to him about it and told him that i still had feelings for my ex. he didn't seem to have a problem with it. he said that he expected it and he didn't know what to say.

now its clear that after dating a guy that i was very much in love with, i started dating his friend and still was catching feelings for him. now that i've ended it with his friend. i'm back to being in love with him. he doesnt like me because what i did. he doesnt want to have anything to do with me because i was involved with his friend.

theres no way that i can go back out with him, that im sure about. but im starting to think of him a lot.

please tell me what i should do about this.

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