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writes:I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married.She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and dancing and she comments on my butt and rubs it a lot. She told me the other day that I am her synapse stimulation. I think she feels the same way as I do, but I don't want to risk losing her friendship.How can I tell if she feels the same way?
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reader, wwwchrissy  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 you can look but you better not touch!! It can only hurt the ones you love!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Well she is either the biggest flirt/tease or she is into you but wait a sec your married? Shouldnt you be talking to your wife about this or are you going to start an affair and break her heart, and if she is married to she is either unhappily married or she is just flirting with you thinking its harmless cause your married.
You need to figure out if you want to stay married i would be more concerned about that then whether she likes you or not
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reader, rcn +, writes (26 February 2008):
 It sounds like she may feel the same way. Just a reminder, while married cheating is cheating. Once it happens it is your spouses right to know. Then it is their right to choose if they remain or move on. You married, hopefully out of love, so out of that love it's wrong to not allow him a choice based on crossing marital boundaries, and allowed to make a choice of what's best for him.
It's okay for you to choose to be with a woman, but it's not okay to make that choice if your choice has the possability of causing harm upon your spouse. That just says, sometimes when saying "I do" should have said "I don't".
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 well from the way she has been acting, it sounds like she may have feelings for you. but you are both married, why are you considering taking things further?? do you not love your partner? i think this is the bigger issue here, you need to ask yourself wats missing from your marriage that you need to go somewhere else for excitment. you never know, she may just be a very forward and affectionate friend, but if you do have feelings for her, then i suggest you think about separating from your partner. talk to her if you need to, see wat she thinks is going on here.
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