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writes:Hi im a 17 year girl. and im still a virgin. But recently all my mind is on is SEX.I cant even talk to man without thinking what it would be like to have sex with him. I get turned on by the smallest things. i'm also having dreams about me having sex.I'm Sooo turned on its unbelievable!!i wake up in the mornings and i could just pounce on the first man that came into the house or the 1st man i saw!! Its absurd.How on earth am i like this if im still a virgin?? ahhhh. Its driving me mentall.help.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): You can be a horny virgin. And guess what? You can be happily married for 20 years and still deal with being sexually frustrated sometimes.Sex is a strong drive. It won't always be as bad as it probably is for you right now, but you really need to learn to deal with controlling your sex drive even when it's in gear. People (of all ages) get into a lot of trouble because they can't/won't control it. It's not in the constitution that horniness justifies anything done to satisfy it.
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reader, kissxmexagainx  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 you're perfectly normal. you're a teenager therefor your hormones get the best of you. I don't think you should have random sex, but get to know your body! buy a sex toy && learn what you like. that way you'll be prepared for sex once you're in a stable relationship =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Why didn't I realize girls thought like this when I was your age? I think I would have had rather more fun than I did at the time.I guess it's your hormones telling your body you need to reproduce pretty soon, as is the way of things. Don't get too near an older man though, because unlike an inexperienced younger man, he'll be able to smell from your pheromones the fact that you're craving some nookie and you could wind up with one or two unsavory characters who might take advantage of you.
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reader, dannyboy85  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 hi,
id recommend not sleeping with 1st guy u see anyway!could be a big mistake! dont rush it take it easy! find a nice guy u like go out 4 awile and if the time is write the time is write and if not. no harm! sex is better with sum1 u love really is so dont jus sleep with any1! ur only 17 relax! have sum fun 1st then u can worry bout sex! hope i helped!
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reader, dannyboy85 +, writes (9 April 2009):
hi
i would recomend NOT sleeping with the first guy u see anyway! that could be a big mistake! maybe jus take it a little slower find a nice guy u like and he likes u and go out 4 awile! sex isnt all wat its cracked up to be trust me! take it easy dont rush it it will be much better!
hope i helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): it's okay i've been through that too and i'm 19 and still a virgin. when i was 17 i thought about sex like 80% of time. it doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not you can still be the horniest bastard on the planet. there's nothing wrong with you it's just natural. everyone gets urges like that it's a part of growing up.
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