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writes:So I'm in a relationship right now and it's likely that I'm going to engage in intercourse in the near future. My problem is that I'm panicking about my appearance down there... I mean, what do guys expect? I'm scared that I'll have done something weird or just wrong. A man's reply is especially wanted. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Guy's opinion?
Some guys love bush others love shaved...
Your safest bet will be keeping it trim and neat, not overflowing and not shaved completely, trimmed short carefully with scissors will do the trick.
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reader, Ashle08  +, writes (9 August 2008):
it doesnt matter what you look lke down there its whats inside that counts nd if he takes the piss then he is not a true boyfriend ! hope that helps
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Guy's don't expect anything. All vagina's look different. I can promise you that he'll just be pleased to be with you. Please don't worry. Everything'll be fine.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 It's natural to be worried and think that we might not be attractive, but don't worry. I'm sure he will like you.
And then, not knowing what to expect is a great part of the fun. If we always knew what we will find, that would be boring.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Clean and trimmed. Doesnt have to be drastic just neat and tidy x
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reader, daletom +, writes (7 August 2008):
How near in the future? Are you a virgin?
Being clean is the most important thing. A daily bath or shower will probably take care of that. If you have been brainwashed by porn, where bald pubic mounds or cutesy trimmings seem to be popular these days, realize that is a matter of fashion. I personally prefer a more natural-looking bush (though my wife and I have had fun playing with other options).
If the first time you and your guy see each other naked is the first time you have sex I think you are making a mistake. Especially if it's The Very First Time, or even the first with a new partner, if you two haven't spent some time in non-penetrative sexual lovemaking (including fondling, oral sex, petting, "outercourse", etc) you almost guarantee an embarrassing, fumbling, inept and painful (emotionally and physically) first experience. It takes anywhere from a few days to several months of shared nakedness, learning each other's responses, etc to make your first intercourse go well.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Hi,
Just make sure all is clean down there. Darkness could be an idea for your first time. hannah.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): Well generally guys don't expect a cock to be down there.
The usual is generally well recieved.
No seriously, you don't have anything to worry about. I know it might seem like you have everything to worry about, but if he actually wants to have sex with you then you'll be fine.
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