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writes:I'm 21 years old and I'm an asian. I always feel down when thinking that I've got quite not a good figure. My boobs are small (B.34) and actually i'm still okay with my small boobs. The only problem is that, i've got a wide hip but a very flat ass, more like square-shaped ass. My friends no matter old friends or new friends would complain about my ass which maybe seem distracting to them. I'm so sad when one of my friend laughed at me and she told me that my hip is wide but my ass is too flat as if that my ass doesn't exist:'( even my elder sister said that my butt is very annoying coz it's wide but square and flat. I don't have any difficulty for guys to like me. Even, guys always approach me sincerely and have a great crush towards me. Eventhough i always get the attention from guys wherever i go, but that's maybe because of the way i dress up (i'm kinda stylish) and maybe because i've got a good-looking face. But, i remember this one moment when i joined a singing competition, several girls were gigling and my sister heard that they were actually laughing at my butt. Now, i've got a loving man, he has a good figure not too masculine and kinda rugged (he's a fan of ego),he loves me so much but i'm so ashamed with my ass and i won't let him walk behind me because i'm afraid if he's looking at my butt and compare me to other girls who've got a firm bubble butt.Can you tell me how to raise my confidence and does the shape and the size of an ass really matter?I'm so depressed and offended by people surround me:'(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Seriously,
I love Asian woman and there flat behinds and small chests. They are a distinctive turn on to me. Remember that men just like woman (people), are attracted to different things. There is really someone out there for everyone so don't feel bad or self conscious. And yes woman making fun of you, means they are self conscious or envious of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Girl,
I'm in a similar position to you so I know exactly how you feel. My butt is so square and flat! Sometimes I worry that my boyfriend is comparing my butt to curvier girls too, but I know he loves me no matter what I look like on the outside, its whats on the inside that counts, so dont worry! You have a few options if you want to improve the appearance of your butt:
1. Butt implants- silicone implants are inserted into your butt to give you a better and bigger rear end. Unfortunately the procedure is costly and carries risks. In addition, healing time can take up to several weeks or months.
2. Butt augmentation- fat is taken from different parts of your body and transfered into your buttocks to give you a bigger and better shape. Unfortunately, some people need to undergo this procedure a few times to actually see results and it is also a very costly preocedure too.
3. Squats- however, I have tried squatting a millions times plus 1, and it really dosen't work, especially for people with super flat butts like myself!
4. You can purchase butt enhancing products such as butt bras (which are designed to push out your butt to give you more volume, similar to a push up bra) or butt pads. These come in foam or for a more real and naural look, you can try silicone padded underwear. I recently purchased some, and my boyfriend absolutely loves it! But he loves me regardless of my butt!
Hope this helps. Good luck!
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reader, Jmo  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 It sounds like your ass is perfectly fine. And when girls give other girls shit about their ass (no pun intended) it's almost always because they're self-conscious about their own. I've gotten criticism about my small ass but you kind of have to consider where the criticism is coming from... usually jealous broads.
First of all, your man obviously loves you and your ass. Secondly, if you want some optical illusion butt-lift, wear jeans (if you wear jeans) with back pockets that give the idea of a rounder ass.
-Jmo
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): the size of your ass only matters when you sit on something with it. Otherwise i don't think anyone really cares. its more how well its contained and also presented by the person who carries it.
you can always excersize and firm it etc. or by the shaping tights things?
... ask your man if he likes it. i am sure he will love it.
yours is fine and beautiful - enjoy your ass!
Star.x.
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