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writes:Hello everyone!I have a guy friend who I met in college of last year. Ever since I met him..I've liked him but I wasn't sure If he liked me. We only hanged out in school and everytime people see us together they would think we're dating. But sometimes he confuses me. Last ear he would say that I was acting like a bitch for no reason at all. He would say that when i didn't give him my pencil once and he said it another time when I told him I wanted to leave him (he was waiting for the bus to take him home) and go sit down inside. He wanted me to wait with him. When he would say that, I would think that he don't like me.We hugged once because he asked for a hug..But I told him no because he was being mean...and he kept making sad faces/pouty lips to get me to hug him..Later when we were outside, he said well do you like me? Then I said it was too cold to hug and he said we could warm each other up. So I hugged him..That shows me that he likes me.Last week when we were together, he said, "you know you can't resist me, but we are just friends." I smiled and told him I know and he said so you don't want to? I said want to what? He said you know. I said no I don't know..tell me what you're talking about. And he said I'm not gonna spell it out. I said you don't have to spell it out..just say the word.He thinks I know what he was talking about but I didn't..I was thinking he meant sex but then we were in school so I don't think thats what he meant. Then I thought he meant kissing..but I don't know since he never told me.So can you tell me what does all this mean and does he really like me because at times he confuses me. I am really shy..sometimes he is too..but he's much more outgoing than I am. I really like him but it's hard for me to express that to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks soo much for your response! He knows I like him too..and I hope he doesn't think I'm leading him on. My parents don't want me dating (still living with them while going to school) so I can't go out with him and I told him about that. But if that wasn't the case, we would have already started dating.
People are always telling us that we should go out, but I know we can't. So for now we're just friends even though that's not what I want. Neither does he because he says "she's not allowed to date" wen people ask him why we are not going toether.
Thanks again for your answer and I appreciate you helping me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): LOL! Okay, when he said "You know you can't resist me but we are just friends" he meant:You know you can't resist me = "I know you like me back"But we are just friends = "But no one has made any moves and we're stuck as friends in the moment. I'm giving you a hint. I want to be more. I'm making a subtle move"I'm not going to spell it out: "I'm not going to tell you that I like you because I truly believe that you already know and you're just toying with me. I don't want to get hurt. If I never SAY that I like you, I can deny it more easily later if you decide you don't want me."Sounds like he really likes you! In his mind, he's made a move and you're playing dumb with him. You need to decide what you want and then let him know. For example, if you like him say:You said that I couldn't resist you but we are just friends. I do like you. Would it be okay if we went out on a date just to see how it goes? ORYou said that I couldn't resist you but we are just friends. Everyone else seems to think we're dating and maybe they see something we don't. I think it would be fun to date you. Should we make it official and go out? Girl, he's YOURS! GRAB HIM QUICK!!!!!
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