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writes:Hi. I've been single for almost 6 months now after coming out of a three year relationship. My first relationship no less. In those 6 months I've tried to do things that I would normally enjoy, but I just don't enjoy them the same as I once did. Life hasn't changed much, only I am no longer with somebody I love and somebody who loved me once, and for whatever reason, this has completely changed my outlook on life.It appears that I can only be happy when I'm with somebody, and I know deep down that that is really awful. What can I do? Surely I can't live like this? I'm single, but how can I be happy again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): Hi,I thought I should reply my boyfriend has just ended it with me because he says he can not commit to a relationship I thought things were going great met his parents everything and now i feel so used and cheap he wont take my calls and wont answer my texts i feel so hurt and can not see a way through this but i can assure you it will start to feel easier not sure when but it will "X" ended it with me four days ago I havent eaten or slept just cried and wallowed in self pity blaming myself but maybe it was me but all i have to think is today i booked a holiday in the sun to get me away from tmptation to call him or go to his house etc so please believe it wil get better surely we cant all be losers in love can we ??Lots of love and hugs Claire x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): I know this might sound mad but we all go through these times in our lives. Uncertainty. If we are in a relationship we think we would be happier if we were single and visversa. You are just going through a settling down period and having some times like this. I have been there and you will get through it and life will be extremely good again. You are just getting to know yourself and being free and single. Enjoy it and make the most of it, you are young so stop worrying. You will meet someone in the future who you will love and who will love you, but right now, just relax and enjoy.
take care
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