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*gross1991
writes: hi i am 18 and my girlfriend is 19 and she is pregnant.. But we both want the baby we both tryed to get pregnant let me tell you a little about us we tried once and had a miscarriage because of stress and we tried again and she is pregnant again but i think we might lose it because i am causing to much stress she says.. what can i soi always make her food clean the house but i am always arguing and she does not like it what can i do i need some help please i don't want to lose this baby i love her very much and don't want to lose her but i think she might break up with me if i keep it up its just so hard because i have o do everything for her because she is always feeling sick please help me if you don't want to post on here you can email me at agross1991@yahoo.com thanks so much hope to have some help from some one soon Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (10 February 2010):
This might be a medical problem. Most people are stressed out, old or young. I've never seen any couple who don't argue. Maybe she has an underactive thyroid? If she is in the first trimester, she will always want to throw up because of morning sickness. Feed her something easy to digest. Make her lemon tea with ginger and honey. Avoid foods like beans, celery, lettuce and caffeine. She needs to talk to a doctor about what might be causing the miscarriage. Make sure she has back up like family members or friends when you go to work. She is at the most emotionally vulnerable stage so if you just raise your voice a little she may take it as an attack. You sound like you are working very hard to please her but no matter what happens you shouldn't take it too hard on yourself.
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