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writes:hey people... im 17 and ive got to ask is there anyway i can boost my self confidence?, i think im ready to go all the way but im just so shy about my parts that i wont let any guy close, i mean one guy im kinda seeing is ready (but already done it and he's 16) and ive given him a hand job and we kiss and stuff but when its my turn i just wont let him in (litirally) is there anything i can do, i really hate being so shy... thanks 4 the help.
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reader, iloveheralot  +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Think positive about life.
helps a lot =)
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reader, suz001  +, writes (6 June 2007):
I was like this when i was younger. Trust me, it will pass as soon as you find a guy you are completely comfortable with. What is it that makes you feel uncomfortable. I used to feel more comfortable about fooling around right after having a shower. Take your time. Don't feel insecure because he's had other girls, this means nothing.
Maybe you should stand naked in front of the mirror and tell yourself that you have nothing to feel shy about. I have curves, but guys don't mind.
This guy wants to be with you! He is not going to notice if you have dangly bits, but he might notice if he sees that you are insecure about it.
Change your mindset, or just wait. When the time is right, you won't be worrying about all these things.
Good luck, every girl is beautiful, including you! You have nothing to feel insecure about!
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