New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I had sex with two guys - now I don't know which is the father! Which could it be??

Tagged as: Health, Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (5 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I had sex with two different guys within days of each other, how likely is it that the most recent person is the father of my child. My due date is 13.6.7 and i had sex with him on the 20.9.6, but i cant remember the date my last period was, someone pls helppppppp

View related questions: period

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, cuttieicy Philippines +, writes (7 June 2007):

cuttieicy agony auntOnly solution if you can afford DNA sampling.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, stina United States +, writes (6 June 2007):

stina agony auntHi Anonymous,

I don't think you'll be able to tell who is the father without having a DNA test performed. If you had sex with both of these guys within days of each other, it's going to be near impossible to tell just by calcuating days alone.

Perhaps I'm wrong, though. You should talk with your doctor and see if there's a method to finding out without having to compare DNA when the child is born.

Sorry - I know it's not really the kind of advice you were hoping for! You probably wanted to know so you could tell one of them that they were going to be a father, eh? Well, if I were you I would probably explain my situation to the both of them. I would tell them that you plan on having a paternity test once the baby is born. Remember - they'll probably need some freak out time, so you should give them a chance to do that. You most likely felt the same way that they will, right? Just don't let them pin a blame on you, okay? It's nobody's fault. And fault implies that something is wrong - and you shouldn't have that sort of attitude about a baby while you're pregnant. You've got enough on your mind right now.

Take care.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

i say it is de person you had sex with last maybe im wrong but i jus taught i'd help.......why dont you see a docter about this he can check when your last peroid was kk

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I had sex with two guys - now I don't know which is the father! Which could it be??"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.046919300002628!