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anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I'm 15 years old and I've been dating this hottie and he wants to have sex. I'm definitely ready to do it. I have questions though. Where can I buy condoms and where do you think we can do it without anyone knowing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): and in the case that you can not be pursuaded to not take this step... condoms are very important and are sold at grcery stores, gas stations, pharmacies, anywhere. It'll be embarassing for you to go in though.. but if this is something you're going to do, then you're going to have to deal with the ridicule and judgement that people will pass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Please don't do this...
you're so young.. and the fact that you're referring to the guy that you're dating as a "hottie" makes me wonder how important you are to each other. You shouldn't do that with someone who you aren't in love with. You can only do this once and after that, you have to tell all the guys who you date in the future that you've slept with __ many people. Make it special.. i'm not saying to wait until you're married... I didn't.. but wait until you know that the guy is right for you.. that you could be with him forever.. and then you can do that with HIM. It'll make him feel a lot more special and probably really improve your relationship.
I had sex when i was 16. I had been with the guy for a year and waiting until i turned 16 before i did anything. I thought i might be with him for life, but later i found out that he was a total jerk.. and had been lyeing to me for almost our entire relationship and after over 3 years, we broke up. Then i met my husband.. he was a virgin and i nkew that he was the one almost immediately.. and i have always wished that i had saved myself for him. I know he would feel a lot better about himself and about us.. it's a regret that i've had to live with.. Not to mention I got pregnant before i wanted to.. I'm just lucky it was with him...
Just please think about this.. it's not something that should be about how sexually attracted to each other you are... It's more than that. It should be an emotional experience.. i may sound lame or like a broken record but i'm serious..
And another thing... losing your virginity under the age of 16 would be considered slutty.. I am not calling you that, i'm just warning you of what most poeple consider it to be. one day, you won't be proud of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): the very fact that you have to even ask these questions says that you are way too young and not ready.
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