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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm so confused and upset I would really love to hear others point of view I meet my boyfriend online 8 months ago and things are generally good I'm still yet to hear that he loved me. I fing his behaviour very confusing so to make it easier I will list the good things then the not so good to sum up why this is the case.He holds my hand when out.I've met his family.His taken me places that are special to him.His generous.He takes me on holidays and pays for hotels.he makes future plans and when he talks about future holidays next year I'm included.His mentioned marriage in jest but as ask my opinions on things such as prenups.He makes me laugh.He makes the effort to attend dates important to me family birthday etc.Always replies to my texts, calls.His a gentleman holding my bag.We have lots in common.But....he hasn't said he loves me.His stopped texting me daily(were kinda long distance then says he forgot! He stopped calling me affecionate names.Apart from holding hands he never cuddles me and I feel I have to initate sex.He talks all tbe time about his females work colleauge.He doesn't compliment me.All the things he did in tbe beginning that I consider sweet as stopped. What do you think is this normal, will feelings grow or am I just a passing the time girl? I'm seriously falling for him and show him tons of affection but I Don't feel I'm getting any back. His in tbe military, as low self esteem for sure and thinks he may of been in love once but she cheated on him.Thanks.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (14 August 2012):
 If he's forgetting to keep contact it obviously shows he has alot going on his mind right now.
Also your long distance so it doesnt help the situation, have a meetup with him and talk this out , if you still feel after that he really doesnt care about you, you might want to reconsider continuing a relationship that may not be working....
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