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writes: I am falling for someone who i used to work with, we see each other a lot in the evenings and he told me the other day that he has always wanted me. I am seeing him tonight and I am so nervous. What can I do to be more confident? I had a four relationship before this so I am not used to all of this. Please help!!
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reader, Adelaide +, writes (16 November 2006):
Oh I forgot to say before you leave the house say out loud ten times
" I CAN DO THIS" I CAN DO THIS!!!!!! Positive Mental Attitude
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reader, Adelaide +, writes (16 November 2006):
Lucky you!!!
Just go and enjoy yourself, keep it casual, nothing too heavy, tell him you are nervous! He is only human and Im sure he will be feeling a little nervous too.
Just go ahead have fun be yourself and enjoy the evening.
think positive remain calm and maintain eye contact during conversation!
Good Luck and have Fun
Adelaide
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 November 2006):
 It is ok to feel a bit jittery before a 'first date' as that is perfectly normal. Take it easy with this guy not to get too involved until you know what he means by 'wanted'...that could mean he wants a relationship with you or it could mean he is after a sexual fling. Just try to relax, be yourself and enjoy your time together!
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