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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey okay so me and my.boyfriend live in 2 different states and we have been doing this long distance for a while now and this past October he came to visit me and we finally made the big decision and both had sex for the first time. It was amazing. I didn't come the first time but the next day I did though he didn't. And it became a problem. Because of it we didn't do it since then. He is coming to see me again and if we do it I want to be all in but I'm scared. I don't know why. Is that normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): dont be scared to. that happened to me and my long distance boyfriend . it willl all work out for you in time :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): You're scared of sex again because he didn't come last time even though you did? Is that what you're saying?
I really don't see how it matters in the slightest who came or not. Making a big deal out of that is just silly. Sometimes you come, sometimes you don't. Sex is about intimacy and closeness - not about who gets to come and who doesn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): I don't understand the problem... To many uses of the word come lol could you re-word it?
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