A
male
age
36-40,
*idintheriot
writes: I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we have been through a lot together. I love her so much but recently we have been arguing so much and it's affecting the way I feel about her. We discussed the arguing and both agreed that we should really make an effort to stop but we argued the very next day. She is also going to university in September so it will make a relationship long distance and even harder. I'm scared that although now she loves me when she starts meeting new people and seeing me less I'll drift away from her thoughts. I don't know how I can live without her but all the arguing and the moving away is too hard. I'm also only 19 and I don't want either of us to miss out on being young!
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reader, Storm39 +, writes (26 February 2008):
You've kind of answered your own question...be young and see what's out there...and I don't mean sexually. Give yourself a chance to mature a bit more emotionally, then you'll probably know what to do in this type of relationship. If your fighting all the time, it's most likely going to continue.
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