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anonymous
writes:hi my husband walked out on me and our 2 daughters 5 mnths ago an we are getting divorced but his best mate an i r aware of a spark between us an we r both aware of it as we have spoke about the situation an he has made it clear that he really likes me but is afraid that i will use him to get to my ex,but he now lives with my ex an i really want to make a move but i also want to wait untill he makes the 1st move.im scared if i make the 1st move then i will scare him off for good.i need advice.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Hi there - I don't know the situation between you and your husband and your two daughters. All I will say is that if you want your divorce to get really messy then it probably will if you start seeing his housemate. This might affect your settlement or more likely the speed at which things get settled. I know the way you're probably feeling you won't want to follow this suggestion - and I don't blame you. But have a think about it - do you need more argument and conflict? Good luck with whatever you decide.
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reader, Kait  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 I suppose you need to ask yourself an important question - did that spark exist BEFORE you and your husband's relationship ended? Otherwise on your part it may be leaning towards someone who cares for you and listens, and you are confusing these feelings.
However, if these feelings did exist before, maybe it's time to do something about it. At the end of the day your husband left you to pick up the pieces and you really deserve "me" time and to follow your heart.
I hope this helps, good luck.
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reader, Kait +, writes (7 November 2007):
I suppose you need to ask yourself an important question - did that spark exist BEFORE you and your husband's relationship ended? Otherwise on your part it may be leaning towards someone who cares for you and listens, and you are confusing these feelings.
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