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anonymous
writes:I recently met a girl on an internet forum. We grew close, and are now pretty much in an internet relationship. We instant message each other, are able to see each other on webcams, and call each other up regularly. We have sent each other letters and packages in the mail too. I have proof that she is genuinely who she says she is due to webcam and phone conversations, such as being able to talk to her on phone while I see her hold up a letter I sent on webcam. Neither of us ever planned on getting into an online relationship, and both have had serious real life relationships in the past too. But we have discussed it, and we both genuinely care for each other. We have also discussed our future together. I've noticed things in her that I haven't in a girl since my most serious real life relationship. I have been able to talk to her for hours, up to a 6 hour phone conversation one day, something I have never even come close to accomplishing with any past relationships, or even my best friend. Unfortunately, being together in real life is not an option for another few years, although we have discussed a real life visit for at least a few weeks, hoping to be able to arrange one as early as next year. I genuinely love her, and I believe that she means it when she tells me she does too.Does anyone have any advice for us?
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 You should meet up in busy plce for just one day first. People can be very different on and offline nd you may not like the offline version of your friend as much as you think.
I've been in your situation before and felt I loved this girl and the 2 times we met up were amazing but she suddenly "Disppeared" almost with little contact.
Do your meet-up but try not to get TOO close until you're completely ready or you my end up being hurt like I was.
None-the-less, good luck with your new relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): This is me again, I would just like to say that the "13-15" range, I am not quite that young, I am turning 16 very soon. She is only a little older than I am.
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