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I'm scared he won't love me anymore because of stretch marks on my butt!

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Question - (4 February 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I'm 17 turning 18 and I'm in Love with my boyfriend and he loves me too we are sexualy active were going to Do it in the shower but I'm scared he won't love me anymore because of my hiddious stretch marks on my butt. Every Time we talk about it I want to cry because there so ugly and I'm affraid he will leave me and tell every one. Btw he's 19 turning 20. SomeOne please help

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A female reader, VictoriaB21 United States +, writes (5 February 2011):

I'm 18 almost 19 and I have had stretch marks on my sides and a little on my stomach from gaining weight really fast and then loosing all right after, so since my skin was stretched so much I now have these lovely marks and I'm fair skinned so they are really notiable, but my bf of 4 years has never said a word abt them until I asked if he noticed them. He then said yeah baby I know they are there but they don't bother me because they are apart of you and I love your curves no matter what marks they have. So don't let your self feel so insecure about it, most guys will be very understanding and hey if he is getting some he definatly won't care :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011):

Stretch marks are not ugly.

Anyone who thinks they are is either looking at themselves and looking for flaws where there are none, or is not being fair to someone else.

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A female reader, xeyesxsetxtoxkillx United States +, writes (4 February 2011):

well, if he loves you like you says he does, then it wont bug him, if your uncomfortable with it, then theres creams you can buy to make them disappear, i have strech marks on my boobs and my sides it discusting, creams work! Good luck girly!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

Sweetheart, a full 75% of the population have stretch marks, it's part of being human and he knows this. I don't know any man that doesn't love the woman in his heart because he discovered stretch marks! Men love the whole package, sex is just a small part of a relationship. Now...go to the drug store and buy some BIO oil, use it every day when you get out of the shower and their appearance will improve dramatically (plus , your bum will be baby soft). It doesn't cost much and it's the only thing I've found that actually helps :)

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