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writes:okay my man has always been good to me he works nights lately on his off days he leaves in the afternoon and does not return to late at night so i been saying hes cheating now he is mad in sleeps on couch when he comes in every time i wana talk he tells me to get out his face he has been cussing me calling me names so i decided not to talk to him because he dont want to talk to me he is really hurting my heart am thinking about telling him to get his stuff and get out my place like today he is off and he been gone all day and if he comes he pretend like he watching t.v and then sleep on couch he does not talk or touch me claims its because i accussed him of cheating he is nerver give and on top of that he watches his sons at his kida mama house claim she at work say he dont want her just watching the kids what should i do tired of hurting
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 This to me sounds like a very unhappy marriage. I think you might be right and he is cheating, as only a guilty man would act in the way that he is doing. If he wasnt guilty he would be talking to you and proving to you that he is not cheating, but instead he has cut you off and he is going to this house were his ex partner is, i wouldnt be so sure that she is at work.
I think the best thing to do is to tell him to get out of the house, you dont need this stress in your life, and it is obvious he doesnt care about your feelings. He is not even prepared to sit down and talk to you and work things out, therefore i think it is time you showed him the door.
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): Sounds like a difficult situation. By the sounds of it, you are unhappy. He feels betrayed because you dont trust him, you feel betrayed because hes not divigulging any info. No point living with someone who makes you feel miserable. Its time to sit down and talk about it. is he happy living there on the couch? Are you happy living with him when he wont even talk to you anymore? find out what it takes to make each other happy. If you both want it to work you will have to work hard for eachother, if not, maybe its time to say goodbye.
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