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I'm scared he might use me again or want to see me for all the wrong reasons!...

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Question - (3 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok there's this dude that always trys to hook up with me but we did some stuff in his room once but it was a one time thing i thought that he was into me and he would ask me out

well the next day he didnt say anything to me and asked another girl out! after what we did the day before

and i told him i liked him a lot before what we we did and he still ingored it well anyways

NOW he wants to hook up with me but im scared he just might use me or just want me for diffrent reasons! also he has a very bad personality and thats something i alwayz see in guyz

HELP !!!!pls

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (3 August 2008):

Yos agony auntHe's going to do the same thing to you again that he did last time. Meaning he'll have sex with you (or 'do stuff' as you descriptively put it), and then be off chasing other girls the next day.

To not hook up with him would be the smart thing to do. It's called 'learning from experience'.

And, if he asks why you don't want to, just say "You're not good enough for me, you don't deserve me". He'll love that :) Good lucke

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2008):

kenny agony auntPersonally i think that you should steer clear of this guy, i think in the beginning he used you to get what he wants, then he did want to know you. Now he wants to hook up again, probably once again to get what he wants then act like you don't exsist. Save yourself the agro and ignor him, and find someone that respects you.

Good luck x

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