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writes: How will i cope over the next few months? i met my boyfriend 6months ago, he had just split up from his ex wife, he is 26 and i am 21. we have a fanastic relationship and get on really well, we hope that in the near future we will get married and have children. however, 3months ago, his ex wife told him she was six months pregant. the baby is now due any day and i am feeling all mixed up. i feel guilty, worried and scared and dont know what my family will think of this. could anyone who has been in this situation offer some advice...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006): In my personal opinion, if this fellow is a good man, he would take responsibility of his child [e.g. supporting the baby and loving him / her the way he should] but will not leave you and love you any less than he does now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): Honey, I hate to tell you but, it's going to get even more complicated. Especially, since your relationship is still new. Now, if your relationship is strong enough to withstand the strain he must put on it because of a baby coming that's wonderful. I am in the same predicament you are in except I chose to break it off because he wanted his cake and eat it too. Its up to him to do the right thing. A baby needs both parents and it wasn't made by itself. If you care about him and he's a good man a right decision will be made. Good luck!
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