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writes:Hi, i know you have probably been asked this question quite alot, but i've been with my boyfriend a year next month and next year when we will have been together 2 years (it's serious)he wants to go with loads of his mates on a lad's holiday, Obviously my first reaction was no way you'll cheat on me, but he says he wont be able to live with guilt and he loves me and just wants to go for the experience (he's not been on one before) all his mates are sex mad and one of them even admitted to me that if he had a girlfriend he would cheat on a lads holiday, i told my boyfriend that there's no way i would be happy with it but he said he's not like his mates and he;s disappointed in me for tarring all lads with the same brush am i right please help me i can't stop thinking about it.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): My boyfriends going on hoilday too in a couple of months with all his friends (which i think some of them might be gay) I'm scared to but if you think about it theres not much u can do either way u either let him go (which u wont cos u love him so) or you let him get on with it? maybe if you don't show him that it means nothing to you that his going on hoilday and youre just miss him he change his mind (u have a year unlike me hehe) and don't forget he could be thinking the same if he left you hear alone? theres clubs and parties and friends im sure you live near :) just try and relax about it thats what im doing and good luck and take care :) Lee/UK/17
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): You are going to have to trust him on this but don't get too stressy about it all. Tell him that the next holiday you want to go with him, just the two of you. If he does get up to anything, then there are mates there, who won't be able to keep their mouths shut, who will tell you and that will be that. But i bet he is on his best behaviour incase it gets back to you. Try not to look on the black side. Enjoy the send off and his return.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): You have got to learn to trust him!! Without trust in a relationship there's nothing! Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him? I mean just because his mates are sex mad and one of them would cheat if he had a girlf doesn't mean your boyf would do the same??? Make the most of time together before he goes away and enjoy yourself too while he's away! There's no point in you staying in and wondering what he's up to - go out with your friends - have a girlie w/end, anything to take your mind of the fact that he's away!!
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (12 March 2007):
Well, you cant stop him so you will have to find a way to make him faithfull. Dont moan at him to much or he will think you dont trust him. Before he goes away, make sure you leave each other on a good note. Make sure he gets everything he needs from you so he wont be tempted to cheat.
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