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writes: there is this girl I met, we became really really good friends, and as time passed i fell in love with her, I told her that and she said that she wants to stay friends. I agreed and after a while we had to seperate, it's been 3 years now and we keep talking on the net, and we meet from time to time.we're friends to the point that we can talk honsetly and naturally pretty much about anything, and sometimes we talk about love, and she says that she doesn't know why she doesn't feel the same, since i am definately the kind of guy for her. i told her that perhaps it's because we don't meet that often and she said that it might be the case. she seems confused, she tells me that her feelings about me "keep changing" and she doesn't know why. also, when we recently met face to face it was very akward, none of us had anything to say, the next time we met I decided to talk about it (we can talk naturally about anything, remember?) and she said that she also felt that it was akward, and that perhaps it's because we got used to talking on the net, she also said that likes it being with me.i'm really not sure why does her feelings keep changing, and I think she's not sure either... any advice??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 July 2011):
 It sounds to me like she is very confused and is just not sure what she wants. Could it be possible that she has feelings for another guy and she just doesn't know who she wants? My guess is that it was awkward because you where so used to talking over the internet that as time passed it got awkward because you hadn't saw each other for a while. You need to be careful here that you don't get hurt. You have said yourself that you have falling in love with this girl and I don't actually think she is in love with you. Talk to her and see if it is possible that maybe you can both meet up more and see how it goes for the both of you. Other than that there is not a lot of advice I can give you, as she doesn't know what she wants therefore I guess it is a risk you might need to take or else you can just cut your losses now and accept that it is never going to happen for you both.
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