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writes: My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow. He got me all upset and I slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and it's getting annoying) or texting me. I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Dang girl! That is some bad stuff! I know just what to do. Stop getting all upset. Take a deap breath. Tell him how you feel. He might stop. Or just ignore it and he'll relize that its not working anymore. I get this stuff a lot. These two tips will have him see that he was being very rude and he hurt you. Don't be mean back. Bye-bye!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Sorry my computer clicked the enter key, lol.
Anyway, try it because it will force you both to monitor every aspect of your spending, it actually gets really fun.
I hop this helps.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (23 January 2009):
Communication is the key to all relationship, if you cut it off you kill the relationship especially if you are married or in a serious relationship already. just answe the calls and tell him you need some space for a moment.
Also to be constructive there is a program caqlled Microsoft Money, it is specifically aimed at personal and family finance, it is a fantastic tool, last year i saved over 20 grand and still had a great lifestyle simply because i followed the plan it set out. I
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reader, Griffo +, writes (23 January 2009):
Communication is the key to all relationship, if you cut it off you kill the relationship especially if you are married or in a serious relationship already. just answe the calls and tell him you need some space for a moment.
Also to be constructive there is a program caqlled Microsoft Money, it is specifically aimed at personal and family finance, it is a fantastic tool, last year i saved over 20 grand and still had a great lifestyle simply because i followed the plan it set out. I
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This all depends on what the messages are like. If there saying sorry and regreting what he said (and they mean it) then he might actually be regetting what he said to you. At the moment were all in a resecion (or whatever it's called) so people are trying to be really good at not spending money at making sure they still have there job and seeing as the argument was about money this topic can get people really angry. If he honestly regrets what he has said in that arguement then I would try to talk to him. But if the messages are bad and are saying even more hurtful things then I don't know and I will leave the question open to any other commenters.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Honey, you are married and there are going to be fights. Deal with this problem with your husband. Money is the main thing that married couples argue about, and it's also the main thing that they divorce over.
Running away, name calling, and the silent treatment are all either mean or controlling, and none of them are dealing with your problem like a mature adult.
If you can't talk to each other without overreacting, then get a marriage counselor to lead you both through the steps to a more productive way of dealing with the inevitable conflicts that are going to come up throughout the course of normal married life. You aren't boyfriend and girlfriend anymore, you are supposed to be partners and you took vows to love each other through thick and thin, and if he didn't love you, he wouldn't still be calling. Even if you are angry, you have to talk to him and deal with your money issues together. The next time he calls, answer and sort out your problem together. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Well, sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you will have to talk to him. Calling you a stupid cow is beyond apology, though. He needs to make up for that one big time! Otherwise, you must communicate. Good luck!
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