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female
age
30-35,
*liviaclairex
writes:I've been in relationships and I've been cheated on most times, I think I go for the bad boy sort of thing, always have haha. But even thought they're like that I usually get with people who get quite attached to me and don't talk to many girls and always just want me etc.Now this new guy I'm with I've been dating for 2 months. And he's very lovey dovey etc, but he is absolutely gorgeous and attracts a lot of attention. He's quite a flirty person in general, not flirty but like puts xxxxxxxxx to everyone even guys. If you get me?Like once i asked him to text my best mate or me saying ''Hey it's liv, i'll be home at 4 come to mine? xx'' and he put like kisses after everything and :P faces etc, and i know it's just the way he types. So when he talks to girls on facebook etc he'll sometimes be like ''Hey xxxx how're you babe? xxx love you bubs xx'' if you get me, and it irritates me a bit.Recently, there was this girl who was all flirty on his page.So, i added her to see what he said back. basically he was quite flirty back, just kind of like putting winks etc even if the wording was not that flirty. But on many accassions he'd put like ''how are you? love you xxx'' and she would be like ''mail me it's easier babe xxxx'' so i don't know what he was saying in the mail basically!I really wanna read his mail! I wanna know what he says!But we spoke about it, and he doesn't really speak to her anymore, so should i assume he's learnt and leave it?I can't stop checking his profile and that :/ I'm just so scared, I'm been cheated on in almost every relationship so why won't it happen now.Oh and also he told me he loved me after a month, and then told me he was in love with me. and i don't know, after two months how can he be in love with me?I think i just need a bit of advice, i'm really down. I slept with him about 5 days ago, and he was my first and things happened and i had to go and get the after pill, and i'm against stuff like that:/ and i just feel a bit needy atm and all this is going through my head.Pleaseeee help xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): If he does it to everyone even guys, it's no biggie! SXx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Man have the ability to fall in love at the instant they see you .
Not everyone is a cheater. There are also good guys out there.
Try to think more positive rather than negative.
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