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I'm really hurt the way my husband speaks to me!

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Question - (8 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2009)
A female India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi All. I am really hurt the way my husband speaks to me. He always supports his sisters and mother. Even if they say anything to me that hurts me,he says i cook up stories and tell him against them. Why would i do this? i am just trying to share my feelings with him. I love him so much. i don't understand why he cannot understand me.. Am I wrong to talk to him against his sisters and mother. Please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009):

He is an average Indian male.He will never take your side.I am sorry to say your life is going to be hell..Do not wait till you have a child.You will get caught and you won't be able to leave.Just get out of there.He is brought up that way.He will never believe you.Use a Mobile voice recorder for proof.See what he says after hearing to it.Nokia has many cheap phones that can be used for voice recording.

Its a losing battle.I feel sorry for us Indian Women.Just our fate I guess.Hugs.

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A male reader, hotguy Australia +, writes (8 March 2009):

first of all neither u r wrong nor ur husband it's only that he needs to grow up a little bit, may be its in his mind that wives r the root cause of fights b/was son and his mum but I think u should never say nething to him regarding his mum neither good or bad and just respect his parents from ur heart and everythings gonna be allritie

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