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writes: Well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a month now and really our relationship is honestly going no where because i really cant get her to open up and tell me things that are bothering her any suggestions as to how i can make her more relaxed about opening up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): let her know she can trust you open up to her about something and maybe she will do the same. but if you ask her something and she is hesitant to answer don't force her to let her tell you in her own time and she will respect you for that.
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 she's probably not telling you things because you've only been dating for a month and she might not feel comfortable telling you important things yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): Be careful not to pressure her into opening up.It is still early, be nice and slowly but gradually asked her one question at a time. She probably needs some time to trust you, don't worry I believe she will open up once she has been with you a bit longer.But you can always tell her you care and ask her in a nice way if she is ok and such. Slowly she will see you care and might think it will be safe to talk you about things that are bothering her. Remind her that you will always be at her side if she wants to talk or anything else. It can be frustrating at times when she doesnt want to tell you, but as time goes she will I hope.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): ....all your gunna get out of me is....its only been about a month, give her time.(-:)3
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