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writes: I'm five months pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't spend any time with me. I've only seen him twice. He says he's trying to focus on getting a place and everything situated for the baby but he never spent time with me before we conceived. He's always out with friends and never answers the phone. What should I do if already expressed my concerns?
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reader, melisnjustn05 +, writes (2 October 2006):
When me and my boyfriend first got pregnant he went out ALL the time with his friends. He would NEVER answer the phone and it was bad. I thought that it was over and he was going to always do that. Well when I was about six or seven months pregnant he stopped. It was amazing he was staying home with me everynight. Now she's three months old and he's only gone out about 3 times. If your like me and believe that he'll change let don't worry but if this is an on-going thing then hunny don't worry there are guys out there that will treat you better, stay home with you, not go out, and if they really like you then they'll accept that you have a baby and but that behind him. Trust me there's guys out there that will treat you they way you should be treated. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): Would you really want to live with him anyway? He says he is focussing on getting a place for the baby yet that hasn't happened yet and you've only seen him twice - so was that the truth or is he not that interested and just fibbing. If you've only seen him twice in five months and he never answers his phone I don't think you should even be classing him as your boyfriend. I agree with the other poster - forget about him and start your own life. If he does ever come through on his word, which he may or may not, you can then either accept or reject him. You be the one to decide what happens.
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