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writes:I was Fooling around with my boy friend and i was in my THIN pjs and he was on top of me naked and i think he ejected pre cum but im not sure... later on we had sex with a condom on but this morning i feel sick and im always feeling thirsty and im excreteing alot (poo) am i pregnant or just worried???!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): Hi
It would probably be unlikely that you would be pregnant in this case but certainly not impossible. Anyone who is at this stage in a relationship should take sensible precautions AS WELL as using condoms which are certainly not reliable. See a doctor, be grown up and take sensible precautions before embarking on a sexual relationship. Your boyfriend should understand, I am sure he would not want you to get pregnant. Go see a doctor or family planning clinic and start some form of proper contraception. Heavy petting often goes further than you intend before getting that condom out and the pill or contraceptive injection could make the difference between getting pregnant or not. Speak to a member of your family - your mum or a sister if you have one or an older female cousin or aunt? You must not be embarrassed but must get sensible help. Remember being scared every month before your period is due is worse than the embarrasment of going to the doctor or family planning centre. I hope all goes well.
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reader, CorpusDei  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Chances are you're not pregnant. Conception can take up to three days from unprotected sex. Unless he's got godzilla sperm with GPS and a homing beacon, it's very unlikely that precum (which does contain sperm) filtered through 1 or 2 layers of cloth onto the outside of your vagina will get you pregnant. Having said that, there is still a very small chance and it will be at least two weeks before a pregnancy test will be accurate. From this point, you need to do two things, and you need to do them tomorrow, a) go to your local planned parenthood or community clinic and get the morning after pill, b) while you're there, talk to them about getting on the pill or the Depo shot. (This will not mean that your boyfriend can stop using condoms. Condoms break, and two 99% effective methods used together will keep this sort of scare from happening again)
In about two weeks, just to ease your mind, pick up a pregnancy test. Get one with two tests, take one two weeks from now, the other one a week later. Then hang out and enjoy that sense of relief as they turn up negative.
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (10 December 2007):
 Hi
You won't know if you are pregnant for sure until your period is due, i doulbt that you are but i am not a doctor & i am only offering my opinion.
The best way to deal with this situation is to take the morning after pill this is effective for upto 72 hours after sex but the quicker it is taken the more effective it is, you can get this from the doctors, family planning centre or the chemist.
If your still worried talk to your doctor they will be able to help you further.
Keep smiling
Lu x
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