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51-59,
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writes:I met a man recently on facebook. We went out on a couple of dates. I'm keen on him as he was keen on me on my second date and hurried to take things further. I emailed him the other day to say I would ring him on his mobile tonight as I can't get him on facebook or on hotmail. Is he a love cheat?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Whoa! Slow down. You have been out with him exactly twice, and while you both evidently had a good time it is WAAAYYY too soon to be thinking about whether he's cheating on you! You do not (nor should you have) any sort of commitment to one another. If all goes well, you can begin to think about commitment in six months to a year from now.Right now, BOTH of you are free to date other people. If you have already slept with him then that's most unfortunate and much too soon, after two meetings.Wait and see if he calls you. You don't want to scare him off. You already emailed him. The next move is up to him, to get in touch with you.If he does, fine, if he doesn't then chalk it up to experience and figure the two of you were not really a good match. At this very early stage, it shouldn't be difficult for you to cut your losses, if that turns out to be necessary.Don't chase him! Men like women to show an interest, but they don't want to be pursued. As mentioned, you already sent an email. Now the ball's in his court.
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